The Hidden Truth About Partner Jealousy I Finally Discovered
Discover the hidden truth about partner jealousy in open relationships! Ever struggled with feelings of control when your partner is with someone else? In this raw and honest video, I share my personal journey from experiencing intense anxiety to finding peace and excitement in open relationships. Want to know how I transformed those uncomfortable feelings of jealousy into genuine excitement for my partner's experiences? I break down the exact steps that helped me overcome my fears, including practical communication strategies and mindset shifts that changed everything. You'll learn: • Why jealousy is often about control, not love • How to identify and address your true fears • Practical steps to build trust and confidence • The power of open communication with your partner • Ways to turn anxiety into excitement Whether you're new to open relationships or experienced in the lifestyle, this video offers valuable insights into managing emotions and building stronger connections. Ready to transform your relationship experience? #OpenRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #Lifestyle #CouplesGrowth #Partnership #Trust #Communication #selfimprovement #openrelationship #personaldevelopment #mentalhealth #relationshipfears CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:10 - John's Journey to Acceptance in Polyamory 02:46 - Overcoming Fears of Losing Control 06:57 - Coping with Partner's Outside Relationships 09:02 - Managing Jealousy and Insecurity 10:10 - Strategies for Emotional Resilience 11:19 - Reaction to Partner's Return Home 12:18 - Navigating Feelings with Partner 12:53 - Emotions After Partner's Infidelity 14:08 - Processing Betrayal and Trust Issues 14:35 - Understanding Feelings of Deception 14:59 - Healing from Cheating Experiences 15:44 - Long-term Effects of Infidelity 16:20 - Moving Forward After Betrayal
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Visiting Swingers Club as a Single Woman
In today's throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about visiting a swingers club as a single woman! They discuss expectations, ways to break the ice, and how to make the most of your experience inside of a lifestyle club! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)
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5 Brutal Myths About Open Relationships DEBUNKED 🔍
Debunking 5 brutal myths about open relationships! 🔍 Curious about the lifestyle? Let's explore together! Ever thought STDs were inevitable? Or that open relationships always fail? Think again! We're busting common misconceptions and revealing the truth about swinging, intimacy, and trust in non-monogamous partnerships. Discover the secrets of successful open relationships and how they can actually strengthen your bond! Tune in to learn why cheating isn't part of the equation and how religious beliefs don't have to hold you back. Ready to challenge your assumptions? Hit subscribe and join us on this eye-opening journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy. Your perspective on love and relationships might just change forever! #authenticrelating #openrelationship #mythsaboutnonmonogamy #love #openrelationshipreddit CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:01 - STDs Awareness and Prevention 09:22 - Cheating: Causes and Consequences 10:37 - Relationship Failures: Common Reasons 13:09 - You Must Hate Your Partner: Misconceptions 15:31 - You Can't Be Religious: Relationship Challenges
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Dealing With Fear And Jealousy In Open Relationships
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about dealing with fear and jealousy in an Open Relationship. Do you throw in the towel and call it quits? Or figure out a game plan on what you can do in the future if it happens again and how to move forward from here. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)
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The Truth About Non-Monogamy: My 40-Year Journey
Curious about non-monogamy? Join us for a fascinating journey through 40 years of open relationships! Ever wondered how someone's upbringing shapes their view on sex and love? John shares his eye-opening experiences from Catholic school rebel to swinger club owner. You'll be surprised by his candid stories of threesomes, roller rink hookups, and personal growth! Want to explore open relationships with your partner? This video is packed with insights on honesty, boundaries, and self-discovery. Learn how therapy and sobriety transformed John's approach to intimacy and trust. Discover the secrets of maintaining healthy connections in the swinging lifestyle! Ready to dive deeper into the world of ethical non-monogamy? Subscribe to our channel for more open discussions on threesomes, swinging, and alternative relationships. Visit openlove101.com for exclusive content, free guides, and info on our private community. Let's explore the open lifestyle together! #non-monogamyjourney #sexualidentityexploration #authenticrelating #relationshipadvice #openrelationship CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:38 - John’s Upbringing 04:54 - Parents Influence on Childhood 08:59 - Alcohol and Sexuality Impact 10:51 - Early Sexual Experiences 12:49 - Sobriety and Sex Life Transformation 16:19 - Importance of Boundaries in Relationships 19:10 - Inner Work and Sexual Well-being 20:47 - Recap of Key Insights 21:54 - Final Thoughts on Personal Growth 23:04 - Join Our Email List & Openlove 101 Plus
This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.