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How I Stopped Caring What People Think & Finally Owned Who I Am | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 5, 2021. As humans our desire to be liked and accepted by others is part of the human experience. We are social by nature, so caring what others think about us is something we all experience on some level, but it can feel like kryptonite when you care too much. When it starts affecting our self-esteem, our self-worth, our confidence and our ability to show up, it becomes a problem we need to deal with.
In this episode, Lisa introduces the tactics and strategies she uses and reveals how to turn your kryptonite into a superpower that leaves you in charge with your empathy intact.
SHOW NOTES:
Beating Yourself Up | Lisa’s tip for catching yourself and asking ‘what’s the lesson?’ [2:18]
Social Anxiety | Lisa shares tips socially awkward situations and having a plan [4:54]
People Pleaser | Lisa reframes the problem & defines the main issue with people pleasing [9:56]
Inner Critic | Lisa explains why caring isn’t a problem but listening to your gut is crucial [17:32]
Caring for Others | Lisa reveals why boundaries and self-care are needed [25:21]
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If He Does This, Get the F*cK Out! 20 Signs You Might Be Dating a Psychopath | Jim Clemente PT 2
Welcome back! We’re getting back into this juicy episode of Women of Impact with the incomparable Jim Clemente. Today, we're tackling the undercover signs—those red flags—that spell trouble in a relationship. Have you ever met someone who was too good to be true? We’re talking about charm on overload, constant flattery, and someone who takes care of everything to such an extent you barely connect with friends and family anymore.
Guys, if you've ever second-guessed yourself over a too-perfect-to-be-real partner or wondered if that new friend really has your best interests at heart, this episode is everything you need. Together with Jim, we’re going to unveil the reality that might just help you dodge a bullet and make sure you are super confident in your personal power.
So let’s jump straight back into these heart-racing insights that are gonna revolutionize the way you approach relationships—I’m your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and this is Women of Impact!
SHOWNOTES
17:02 Dr. Hare’s Psychopathy Checklist
24:00 Deception Detection Techniques
33:52 The Power of Intuition in Protection
41:15 Chilling Real-Life Cases
51:47 Practical Strategies for Safety
58:35 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
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If He Does This, Get the F*cK Out! 20 Signs You Might Be Dating a Psychopath | Jim Clemente PT 1
What’s up my amazing crew, it’s your girl Lisa Bilyeu rocking it with Women of Impact! Now picture this – have you ever been out on a date and thought, could this person actually be dangerous? Maybe it’s not even just a date, perhaps it’s an old flame or heck, even a coworker or neighbor. And you’ve wondered, “Is this person a total sweetheart, or am I dating a potential psychopath?” Trust me, I get it!
Seriously, did you realize that 1 in 20 people actually have psychopathic traits? So if you've dated more than 20 people, you might have unknowingly encountered one. That means someone who seems super charismatic on the surface may actually be hiding some pretty scary truths underneath that charming exterior. And before you know it, you’re caught up in something that isn't just about missing paying the bill or forgetting an anniversary—it could be about coercive control, losing your independence, and feeling isolated beyond measure.
And that’s exactly why I’m thrilled to bring today’s guest onto the show. He’s a badass former FBI profiler, Jim Clemente, who can spot these wolves in sheep’s clothing from a mile away. He’s going to break down the signs you need to look out for—those sneaky little cues that many of us miss while dating.
So, my friends, if you’re ready to ensure you never get caught up in a dangerous web of deceit—and let’s face it, who doesn’t want to avoid that—keep listening because Jim’s insights are a must-know for everyone who’s dating, befriending, or just trying to figure people out in this world. We’re diving deep right here, right now on Women of Impact!
SHOWNOTES
00:00 Introduction to Psychopathy Statistics
01:00 Jim Clemente’s Experience with Psychopaths
05:18 Coercive Control in Relationships
08:43 The Role of Red Flags
13:30 The Dangerous Significance of Isolation
15:12 Love Bombing Tactics
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If You Always Feel Like the ‘Bad Guy’—You Might Be Getting Gaslit | Nedra Tawwab (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 11, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about empowering women to recognize their worth and set those necessary boundaries. Today, my special guest is the incredible therapist and boundaries expert, Nedra Tawwab.
Guys, if you're finding yourself in relationships where you’re constantly questioning, compromising, or downright losing your mind trying to keep the peace, listen up. Nedra Tawwab is here to reveal the key signs of manipulation, specifically gaslighting, and how to navigate these toxic situations with strength and grace.
We're diving into gaslighting – what it truly means, how to spot it, and most importantly, how to stand firm in your truth without apologizing just to keep the peace. This episode is a must-listen if you're ready to reclaim your power, set healthy boundaries, and thrive in every relationship.
Prepare to take notes, because Nedra is dropping some serious wisdom bombs on transforming those damaging dynamics and empowering ourselves through practical and actionable steps.
SHOWNOTES
00:00 Nedra on Self-Mistreatment & Choice
00:13 Deep Dive into Gaslighting
00:56 Recognizing Gaslighting in Relationships
01:50 The Reality Behind Gaslighting Tactics
03:02 Questioning Your Sanity vs. Gaslighting
03:53 Apologizing When It's Not Your Fault
05:02 Authentic vs. Peace-Keeping Apologies
07:19 Shifting from Aggression to Assertiveness
08:22 Immediate Steps to Take Control Today
09:00 Accepting Fault and Being Human
10:00 Work Towards Communicating Boundaries
12:05 Handling Accusations with Truth Perspective
14:00 Personal Narrative and Present Change
18:55 Identifying When You Need Boundaries
21:03 Handling Dismissive Responses
23:02 Expanding Your Communication Skills
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If You Never Ask, You’ll Never Get It—How to Negotiate Like a Boss | Dr. Linda Babcock (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 20, 2022. What up, guys! I'm so freaking excited to bring you today's episode with a negotiation expert for women, Dr. Linda Babcock! She's a professor of economics, an insightful author, and an unyielding advocate for putting an end to dead-end work for women.
Linda is fired up about showing women how to negotiate like a freaking pro for what they actually want. Whether it's negotiating a pay raise, figuring out holidays with the family, or building the relationship of your dreams, Linda's got us covered.
If this conversation hits you right in the feels, please leave a review and subscribe to the podcast to let us know what resonated most with you. Honestly, it's the best way to support us and keep bringing conversations like these straight to your ear holes.
SHOWNOTES
00:00 Introduction 00:51 Why Women Are Afraid to Ask
01:04 Double Standards in Negotiation
01:50 Pushback Women Face
02:18 Learned Behavior of Holding Back
02:48 Societal Perceptions of Ambition
03:30 Establishing and Breaking Fake Lines
04:16 Celebrating Assertive Women
04:50 Women Supporting Women
05:57 Advocating for Others vs. Self
06:36 Preparation for Negotiation
08:20 Mindset in Negotiation
10:07 Asking vs. Negotiating
11:20 Research and Preparation
13:04 Importance of "Why"
15:16 Impact of Not Negotiating Salary
18:03 Saying No Strategically
22:07 Deciding What to Say No To
26:28 Effective No Strategies
28:28 Traits in Negotiation
32:05 Navigating Double Standards
34:07 Exploring Negotiation Techniques
39:48 Handling Negotiations with Close Ones
44:47 Understanding Personal Triggers 46:45 Reviewing and Learning from Negotiations
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New episodes every Wednesday! Welcome to your Bolden Age. Enter with Attitude, not apologies! This is where you leave the embarrassment and shame at the door. Age ain't nothing but a number my homie and you should NEVER hold yourself back! You CAN do anything! You are NEVER too old.