What Would Ted Lasso Do

This week we arrive at episode 11 – our penultimate episode – "Mom City," where Dimple and Jeff delve into the powerful themes of forgiveness and second chances as they unravel storylines about struggling to seek forgiveness while carrying the burden of past trauma. They discuss how tough it can be to forgive, especially when old grudges or emotional baggage weigh us down. They also explore the impact of forgiveness on our well-being and mental health, and that forgiveness doesn't change others' hearts, but it heals our own.  In This Episode [04:02] Forgiveness and second chances. [11:28] Healing potential through addressing unresolved issues and vulnerability. [12:51] Finding motivation and self-reflection for personal growth. [15:11] Emotional connections and growth through storytelling and shared experiences. [22:26] The psychological impact of receiving prolonged hate and negativity. [29:55] Gratitude and personal growth in the face of challenging experiences and relationships. [34:18] Forgiveness and appreciation in competitive settings. [34:52] Repairing strained family relationships with second chances. [44:38] Transformative power in healing relationships. [53:46] Navigating family dynamics with anxiety and cultural differences. [01:00:31] Confronting the past and embracing authenticity. [01:11:22] Episode takeaways. Resources & Links Mentions 5 Reasons Why Its Important to Forgive - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/202009/5-reasons-why-its-important-forgive Why Forgiveness is Important - https://positivepsychology.com/why-is-forgiveness-important/#the-relationship-between-forgiveness-and-healing  Forgiveness: Letting Go of Grudges and Bitterness - https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/forgiveness/art-20047692 #WWTLD  https://www.wwtldpodcast.com/ https://twitter.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/wwtldpodcast/ Learn More About Dimple Dhabalia  https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/ https://twitter.com/dimpstory https://www.instagram.com/dimpstory/ https://www.facebook.com/dimpledhabalia https://www.linkedin.com/in/dimpledhabalia/ Why Radically Human Leadership Is More Important Than Ever https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/why-radically-human-leadership-is-more-important-than-ever 4 Steps to Creating A Human-Centered Organization https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/004-4-steps-to-creating-a-human-centered-organization Learn More About Jeff Harry  https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/ https://twitter.com/jeffharryplays https://www.instagram.com/jeffharryplays/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffharryplays/ https://www.youtube.com/jeffharryplays https://www.tiktok.com/@jeffharryplays Building Psychological Safety At Work https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/building-psychological-safety Solve Your Problem With Play https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/coaching Jeff’s Positive Psychology Playlist https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/playlist

We’re down to the final 3 episodes of season 3 and of the series! This week Dimple and Jeff talk about episode 10 - International Break and dive deeper into the topics of vulnerability, imposter syndrome, finding a growth mindset during times of adversity, and what it means to connect with our inner child. They reflect on being the children of immigrants and how that impacted the people they’ve become, and why tapping back into that sense of wonder that most of us have as children has the capacity to change everything.  In This Episode [03:13] Initial impressions and themes [13:05] Rediscovering joy through the inner child [17:01] Football as a source of community and passion [25:32] Getting comfortable in your own skin [29:30] Overcoming imposter syndrome and embracing self-confidence [30:59] Empowering women of color to overcome underestimation and embrace their full potential [33:55] Self-discovery and introspection through personal reflection and artistic expression [42:44 ] The pressure and expectations that come with being a child of immigrant parents [45:38] The healing power of play   [49:32] The consequences of relationships with unequal power dynamics [50:06] The epiphany of tapping into the hidden potential within each of us [53:30] The choice of mindset during times of adversity [57:07] The challenges of walking your talk [01:03:52] Why credentials and titles don’t validate our worth [01:07:58] Episode takeaways Resources & Links Mentions Imposter Syndrome is a Scheme - Reshma Saujani - Smith College Commencement Address - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BoHDDgeQtlc  Why Everyone Feels Like They’re Faking It - https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2023/02/13/the-dubious-rise-of-impostor-syndrome    #WWTLD  https://www.wwtldpodcast.com/ https://twitter.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/wwtldpodcast/ Learn More About Dimple Dhabalia  https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/ https://twitter.com/dimpstory https://www.instagram.com/dimpstory/ https://www.facebook.com/dimpledhabalia https://www.linkedin.com/in/dimpledhabalia/ Why Radically Human Leadership Is More Important Than Ever https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/why-radically-human-leadership-is-more-important-than-ever 4 Steps to Creating A Human-Centered Organization https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/004-4-steps-to-creating-a-human-centered-organization Learn More About Jeff Harry  https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/ https://twitter.com/jeffharryplays https://www.instagram.com/jeffharryplays/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffharryplays/ https://www.youtube.com/jeffharryplays https://www.tiktok.com/@jeffharryplays Building Psychological Safety At Work https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/building-psychological-safety Solve Your Problem With Play https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/coaching Jeff’s Positive Psychology Playlist https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/playlist

This week, we dive into Episode 9, "La Locker Room Aux Folles" and consider what it means to be human–the good, the bad, and the messy middle. In this episode, Dimple and Jeff explore the themes of vulnerability, empathy, and courageous communication found in three key storylines. They reflect on how our words impact others and how often we minimize or ignore how our actions impact others until it becomes personal. They consider what it means to be whole and not have to compartmentalize ourselves, a key aspect of human-centered leadership. And, they dive deeper into the topic of seeing the humanity in others by remembering that we never know what other people are going through.   Join Dimple and Jeff for another fun and thought-provoking conversation about life, love, and leadership–Lasso style. In This Episode [03:48] Vulnerability, empathy, and human nature [07:11] The connection between empathy, compassion, humanity and play [11:54] The significance of timing and readiness in having difficult conversations [13:49] The importance of respecting someone's chosen name or pronoun [22:03] Messiness of empathy and communication [28:12] Being vulnerable and communicating honestly in relationships [30:05] Growth and the power of kindness [37:23] The transformative power of being true to oneself and showing up authentically [43:36] Redefining fame in the social media era. [47:28] Challenging oneself and not giving up [51:10] Vulnerability and storytelling [01:00:34] The power of genuine love. [01:01:12] Episode takeaways Resources & Links Mentions Brené Brown on Empathy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw  Mexico Fans Chant Gay Slur “puto” at USMNT, Cause CONCACAF to Suspend Match - https://www.outsports.com/2023/6/15/23763078/mexico-fans-gay-chant-team-usa-put-chant    #WWTLD  https://www.wwtldpodcast.com/ https://twitter.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/wwtldpodcast/ Learn More About Dimple Dhabalia  https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/ https://twitter.com/dimpstory https://www.instagram.com/dimpstory/ https://www.facebook.com/dimpledhabalia https://www.linkedin.com/in/dimpledhabalia/ Why Radically Human Leadership Is More Important Than Ever https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/why-radically-human-leadership-is-more-important-than-ever 4 Steps to Creating A Human-Centered Organization https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/004-4-steps-to-creating-a-human-centered-organization Learn More About Jeff Harry  https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/ https://twitter.com/jeffharryplays https://www.instagram.com/jeffharryplays/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffharryplays/ https://www.youtube.com/jeffharryplays https://www.tiktok.com/@jeffharryplays Building Psychological Safety At Work https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/building-psychological-safety Solve Your Problem With Play https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/coaching Jeff’s Positive Psychology Playlist https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/playlist

This week, we jump into Episode 8 of What Would Ted Lasso Do?: “We’ll Never Have Paris.” In this week’s episode, Dimple and Jeff talk about how the themes of loneliness, accountability, and digital intimacy, impact our beloved cast of characters. They explore the power dynamic between employers and employees in romantic relationships and reflect on the complexities of modern relationships, especially with the challenges that come with navigating the digital age. They also consider how our insecurities often make us get in our own way and how being present in the moment can help us let go of ruminating on the past and future. This is yet another episode jam-packed with gems of wisdom and a lot to think about! In This Episode [05:05] The theme of loneliness and the desire for meaningful connection  [14:25] The power dynamic difference in dating and the potential consequences for the business. [17:19] The concept of digital intimacy and how it can keep us stuck in past relationships. [21:02] Accountability and agency in relationships, including the importance of being accountable and allowing partners to choose what to keep. [28:09] How our insecurities can lead to awkwardness in our interactions with others  [32:57] How assumptions and worst-case scenarios affect our thoughts and actions. [35:00] The importance of being present [40:33] The negative effects of greedy curiosity  [53:13] Nate's loneliness and attempt to create a support group. [59:35] The epidemic of loneliness in the US [01:02:49] The level of loneliness in men, the challenges of cultivating emotional intelligence, and the importance of men's circles as a form of community. [01:04:30] The importance of social connection [01:08:53] Celebrating accomplishments [01:11:33] The lack of celebration in people's lives Resources & Links Mentions Surgeon General’s Advisor on Loneliness - https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf  Backstory on Hey Jude - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hey_Jude The Surprising Soccer Chant History of “Hey Jude” - https://www.salon.com/2023/05/04/ted-lasso-hey-jude-soccer-chant/  The Breakfast Club Adventures: The Beast Beyond the Fency by Marcus Rashford - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/59819558-the-breakfast-club-adventures    #WWTLD  https://www.wwtldpodcast.com/ https://twitter.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/wwtldpodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/wwtldpodcast/ Learn More About Dimple Dhabalia  https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/ https://twitter.com/dimpstory https://www.instagram.com/dimpstory/ https://www.facebook.com/dimpledhabalia https://www.linkedin.com/in/dimpledhabalia/ Why Radically Human Leadership Is More Important Than Ever https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/why-radically-human-leadership-is-more-important-than-ever 4 Steps to Creating A Human-Centered Organization https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/004-4-steps-to-creating-a-human-centered-organization Learn More About Jeff Harry  https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/ https://twitter.com/jeffharryplays https://www.instagram.com/jeffharryplays/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffharryplays/ https://www.youtube.com/jeffharryplays https://www.tiktok.com/@jeffharryplays Building Psychological Safety At Work https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/building-psychological-safety Solve Your Problem With Play https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/coaching Jeff’s Positive Psychology Playlist https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/playlist